Everyone is different, including children with autism. People often assume that all children with autism are the same, but they’re as individualistic as other children. However, it would be best to consider a few general things when interacting with a child on the autistic spectrum to have a positive experience. 

Follow these dos and don’ts of interacting with children with autism to ensure that you have positive and effective interactions.

Do: Talk About Their Interests

A narrow or extreme interest in a niche topic is a key indicator of autism in children. Children can become fascinated by the endless knowledge from maps, numbers, dinosaurs, cars, and more. Talking about these interests and sharing their knowledge brings children comfort. 

Bond with the child by listening to the topic and asking questions but avoid changing the subject.

Do: Encourage Building Friendships

Autism can cause social challenges in children because they may seem disinterested or react to your friendly gestures with silence. However, some children want to make friends despite the silence and disinterested look. 

Include these children into your plans, talk to them when you see them, and invite them to birthday parties to help encourage socialization beyond ABA therapy.

Do: Give Your Child Time To Respond

Children with autism need more time to process and understand what you’re saying, especially if you’re speaking loudly or in a crowded space. If you ask a question, give them a few seconds to respond. Instead of filling up “empty” gaps in the conversation, leave room for the child to respond.

Don’t: Take Things Too Personally

Children with autism may respond in a way you may not understand. They may react by ignoring you, walking away, or having a meltdown. These responses may hurt your feelings, but you should try your best to keep your emotions under control.

Remember to be as flexible as you can and try to form a connection. 

Don’t: Stare at Them

Children with autism may be compelled to do usual things like blinking their eyes multiple times, jump around, make noises, or flap their hands, but these behaviors help comfort them. If you stare, the child may feel embarrassed.

You don’t need to document or judge the child’s behavior. The best way to support them is by allowing them to be themselves fully.

Don’t: Use Creative Language

Children with autism take things literally. Be as literal and direct as possible so the child can know what you’re talking about. Avoid using creative language like sarcasm, idioms, or exaggerations when talking to them because you will confuse the child. 

Learning how to interact with children with autism will help them face potential challenges down the road with ease.

Interacting with children with autism, understanding their unique communication styles, and harnessing their strengths can lead to significant progress. The experience may be challenging at times, but the rewards—witnessing growth, resilience, and independence—are indeed immeasurable. To ensure you’re supporting your child the best way possible, sign up for our ABA therapy training for parents to have the necessary social skills for your child with autism.